I used to fight reality every single day. I longed for a more supportive boss. I wanted to be further along in my career. I wished my...

“Where do you see yourself in five years?” Every time I used to hear that question, I’d cringe. It felt like a trap. How was I supposed to predict the exact shape of my life in five years when I was still figuring things out today? As a coach, I now realize I wasn’t alone in this.