A lot of people think change is hard because of the work itself, the habit, the routine, the new behavior they’re trying to build. However, in coaching (and in life), I’ve learned that the hardest part isn’t the actual work, but everything that happens before we start.

I used to fight reality every single day. I longed for a more supportive boss. I wanted to be further along in my career. I wished my...

You’ve probably been called “so nice,” “always reliable,” “a great team player,” or “someone I can always count on.” It feels  like a...